Meaningful Words

This life has to offer so much more that we would have planned or structured, the way we want it to be. Life cannot be good to you always. Learning from hardships, problems, uncertain situations, is what life is all about. Many at times we have ample questions to ask ourselves, that why are we here? why can't we say or do anything freely? why so much uncertainty? why no happiness? why no excitement? why there is nothing like it used to be? these question to ourselves doesn't solve the issue or the turmoil within us. Instead, take the challenge bravely and boldly, wherein you will do mistakes but learning from it, makes it meaningful.

Sometimes we being in turmoil or certain situation tend to commit mistakes like loose comments or things which might hurt the other person, certainly we do it unintentionally or very casually to somebody whom we feel comfortable with, is when we find that we had committed the same mistake again, which would again be unintentional, thinking that we are saying to a person whom we feel comfortable with. The backlogs of such things are the ones which stores up and blast up a day when you don't expect and triggers when you just say anything which you mean to say with a normal intention. 

There will be times in your life when you have to choose between being loved and being respected. Always choose to be respected. That love without respect was always fleeting- but that respect could grow into real, lasting love. Sometimes our actions are much meaningful than words. Therefore, positive words that are spoken should be used as great tools to help maintain, strengthen, restore and build.

The tongue is so powerful, yet such a powerful tool, isn't it? and it affects our lives in ways we may have never known. we must analyse and get flashbacks of those times where we have accidentally used our tongue in a hurtful way. we must remember the affects it has caused. This tongue that belongs in our mouth will affect your soul, language, behaviour and reputation. you may reconcile your relationships with this tongue. you can always compare it to hell on wheels. A good word always heals a wounded heart. Unpleasant words uttered from our mouth to a person will never be forgotten. you can shatter a mirror into hundred pieces and glue those pieces together. No matter what you do may never remove the cracks- they are never seen even when the mirror is glued back together. The same goes with the human heart. the person affected may mend their heart but they remember those harsh words that once hurt them.

Do we have control on our tongues? Lets start practising the good practice.

The choice is yours!!   

-Sivi Ann Varghese